Venus vs Venus
Quite many times we have received strange reactions from our female friends. Their behaviour suddenly change and one is bound to wonder what has gone wrong? Gals, it's time to wake up and do an analysis of the bond you shared with your most trusted girl pal. Be cautious, for the green eyed-monster could raise its ugly head anytime. It's a hard-hitting reality that the female friend who you counted on can actually stab at your back. In worst cases, the envious lady can go to any length to outshine you.
Quite many times we have received strange reactions from our female friends. Their behaviour suddenly change and one is bound to wonder what has gone wrong? Gals, it's time to wake up and do an analysis of the bond you shared with your most trusted girl pal. Be cautious, for the green eyed-monster could raise its ugly head anytime. It's a hard-hitting reality that the female friend who you counted on can actually stab at your back. In worst cases, the envious lady can go to any length to outshine you.
The reason could range from your good looks,well-paid job, caring boyfriend or even your popularity in friend circle for that matter.Niharika, a 20-year-old college girl recalls the verbal conflict she had with her dear girl pal, "I always looked Arpita as a close friend but she ditched me and started spreading ill
tales about my character. She couldn't withstand the attention I used to get from our common friend circle." According to Bhavana Barmi, a Senior clinical psychologist and marriage therapist, "Whenever there is a disparity in the need for security, either in terms of attention perceived or attention received, the factor of jealousy crops in." It seems that emotions, compassion, trust and respect as the pillars of friendship have taken a back seat.
The urge to serve the selfish motive is ruling the minds of these women and they are ready to slaughter the loving bond they share with their female friend. The communication gap could be another factor that deteriorates the situation. Ego clashes and misconceptions further brush off any possibility of restoration of peace and harmony.Dr Srividya Raja Ram, psychologist, Escorts hospital feels that too much proximity can breed lot of contempt especially in cases when women get close to each other. "There must be a healthy distance in a relationship and people should give space to each other." Moreover, the friendship shared between two female friends can be fickle as it operates on zero tolerance. So, girls just prepare yourself for the unexpected because you never know when your dearest female friend takes her own separate way.
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